Happiness – The Ultimate Goal

Happiness – The Ultimate Goal

Hey Guys,
Today I’ve come up with my very first blog and the topic is – Happiness – An Ultimate Goal.
As we all know there are different theories about this Happiness thing. But those all lead us to the only common thing i.e. Being Happy. We have been reading articles about this in many newspapers and at many other places. And all they tell us is that Happiness is the key to achieve the aims you’ve plotted for yourselves, But they don’t tell us how to be at the stage of this ultimate Pleasure. People can’t be happy when their hearts are full of pain and sorrow. Even in our daily lives, we use to hide our smiles many times because we think about the only thing that hurts the most, we think about pain and the suffering it causes us. I agree their might be hundreds of reasons why people aren’t happy these days. Those may be their financial conditions, mental tortures, Social or economic problems and many more. But through this all suffering, what keeps them going is a Hope which tells them that someday everything will be fine, someday everything will be more than okay and that day we’ll be happy and smiling.
Well this hope is something that we cannot count on. Hope is the starting point of expectations and as we all know, expectations is the root of all heartaches.
So these all things are interrelated.
But we all have something greater to look upon which can lead us to the very truth of human life i.e. happiness. This is the only thing people are living for. Some say they are living for Money, but what they don’t understand is Money is what gives them Happiness. And few say Satisfaction is what keeps them going, but the very root of satisfaction is happiness. So basically what people wanna achieve at the end is nothing but the happiness.
There are these few things which will definitely help you understand the roots of happiness and to bring a beautiful smile on your faces-

Love Yourself –

We count on different physical things, different people whom we think we like, just for this Happiness. But what we don’t get is We are the source of our happiness. When you love yourself more than anything, then there becomes the starting of happiness. People might call you selfish for that, but deep inside they all know how much important this is to be in love with ourselves. When we are at this stage of loving ourselves, then whatever you do is for yourself and you find pleasures in those things. At that time, you don’t wait for someone to say that do this and you’ll be happy, because you feel it on your own. Cause you are living the way you want and you know you are gonna be responsible for what’s gonna happen with you. At that time, you stop putting your lives into hands of your parents or any other person like your girlfriend/boyfriend. And you take your own responsibility. And that is when you understand that you’re on the right path.
And this becomes the reason to your Happiness.

Realization of Self Fulfillment –

Another thing that plays an important role over here is the Realization of Self Fulfillment. When you do something, many people have different methods for doing the one thing but they are either through the right path or the wrong path. Many think, what matters at the end is achieving the aim, no matter what path it took to be there. But when you do it with a right path, you feel the sense of Fulfillment. When you know that you have done something on your own and with the right way, you feel proud of yourselves and that’s what leads to the happiness.

Gratitude –

Then there comes the Gratitude. Gratitude is something that you feel inside your heart for people who have been there for you in various troublesome conditions. Gratitude is kind of a respect you have in your heart for the great Almighty, for the very source of all your energy. Gratitude is the Love you have for your parents and family which makes you climb every mountain of difficulties coming in your path. This Gratitude is what makes people feel alive and makes them feel thankful for whatever they have. Being Thankful for something isn’t something you always should tell through your words but you just have to feel it and give it an action sometimes which would make others happy as well.

Live In Present –

Each person have his own past and he’ll have his future as well. The past is full of memories and the future is full of dreams and plans. Past might have some happy memories but it also has some dark memories that keeps one haunting all his life or we can say People refuse to forget their past. Similarly, people so easily get worried about the things which are gonna come being a part of their future. And those worries become reason for someone’s unhappiness. So in order to be happy, people need to live in present. Instead of thinking of the things that happened in the past or which are gonna happen in the future, they need to focus on things which are actually happening right now. They need to focus on the things they are doing to make them better than before. And when we start living this way, there occurs a real change which let us know that we’re evolving. And the emotion filled with this betterment in yourselves, make you actually happy. You start to see the things the way they are. And that’s a big step towards our ultimate goal.

Faith –

This is one of the important factors affecting the lives of many. We all know that everything in the universe is the combination of Matter and Energy. The Universe has a great source of Some Cosmic Energy which drives all the forces happening all around. This Cosmic Energy is also responsible for the living and The Thoughts occurring inside every human being. What we call The God or The Almighty, is the one who supplies this Energy. So having faith in this Universal Energy is nothing but having faith in The Great Almighty. And this is the great force which causes the mind to be in contact with That Infinitum. We get a positive hope when we place our faith in that Almighty. Even if we are lonely, we find ourselves in contact with that Almighty. And this plays as a positive hope which brings out brightness in that loneliness. The life seems amazing and this is what happiness is.

So these are the few rules which lead us to an everlasting happiness.

I hope you like the article.

Stay Alive….. Stay Happy……