Change – The Key To Keep Going

Hello !

So today I’ve decided to write about CHANGE. Well someone can write a whole book on this topic if decided to. But I’m just gonna put up some of my views and experiences related to this topic in this article.

Let’s start with Albert Einstein’s great saying –

As per the knowledge we have, change is something that occurs when something different happens naturally or someone makes something happen because of any known or unknown reasons.

As per my knowledge, this is the most important thing while living the life. We cannot imagine to stay the same forever and I don’t find it wise either.
The change is the necessity for today’s generation if they want to be successful. You have to accept the new ideas, the new technologies, the new thoughts to compete in this world. You cannot just live the life the way it was and expect for the better future at the same time.

Change is the much required factor if you have to excel in whatever work you’re doing. It is something that we do for the betterment of our living, to make our lives more comfortable than they used to be.
It makes you wiser and smarter to see the things in a different manner and to grow through it. It is something that keeps you going.

Change can come in many forms irrespective of the person dealing with it. Sometimes it comes forcefully like a disastrous storm or a lightening thunder. Sometimes it might come in the form of devastating tragedy, a wrong situation, difficult choices, broken relationships or even as a new opportunity. Looking at someone in a different way is also a change. Coming in contact with new and interesting people is also a change.

Even though the change is often difficult to go on with, most of the times it is for the best. We need to cope up with this undesired change in order to accomplish anything great in our lives since it is the one which pushes us to move out of our comfort zones and helps us keep going.

Many times we need to put ourselves in this difficult changing situations to attain our dreams and improve our lives. Even if it means breaking up with someone, leaving a meaningless relationship even though you find it comfortable, leaving a job to do what really makes you happy, staying away from home to achieve your goals, basically doing everything which brings you closer to your happiness.

American Euentrepreneur, Philanthropist Tony Robbins says –

Now this change can be unpredictable. It comes unknowingly. And dealing with this uninvited change is often difficult since it causes mental frustration and lots of pain. We need to investigate the way to cope up with this change so that it will have a good impact on our future.

But there are still people who are afraid of change. They think that this change will worsen their lives. Their beliefs are such that if they tried to change themselves as per the today’s world, they won’t be able to survive, because they don’t find The Change suitable for their living. And it’s literally very hard to change the mentality of such people. They don’t actually want a change.

We see many people talking about traditions and customs. They try to stick to these customs thinking they are the best. But what they don’t get is these customs were made and were suitable for the generations they were made in. But today’s world is changed and people can hardly be a part of these customs. And accepting a change does not mean we are disrespecting those customs and traditions. It’s just that we’re getting evolved to the world beyond these customs. And this is today’s need.

Many times we see, people who have become part of the broken relationships, are very sad and depressed. Because they think, what they had with the respective person was the best relationship, and they say no to change. And that’s what make them unhappy. Moving on is a part of change. Being strong enough to tell ourselves that we deserved better is the only way to stay happy. And that attitude makes the positive change. That’s what makes the difference.

Now there are few people who neither accept the change nor they allow others to accept it. Because they know if the people got themselves changed, then they will be more superior than them.

Imagine being stuck in a state of fear and unhappiness because you were too afraid to take the risks necessary for change. Trying to stay the same isolates you from new relationships, love, and growth. Resisting change may help you feel secure, you know what to expect, but you never achieve all you can and you experience a limited life.

So in order to cope up with our challenges and to stay positive, we need a change. That’s what gonna make us live our dreams and gonna make us happy.

So this is where I end it.

And Guys, if you really wanna know the importance of change in a broader way, I must suggest you to read this book – WHO MOVED MY CHEESE ?? by Spencer Johnson.
Some of you might have already read the book. If not, then please do. Because It really had a great impact on me. I’m damn sure you all would like it.

So Love and Peace from My side. See you soon.