Love – Something Miraculous

Love – Something Miraculous

Hello Everyone,

So it’s a new blog and I hope you guys liked the recent few. So what I’ve got to talk about is Love. I’m not sure if I’m matured enough to talk about this, because this thing that we’re gonna talk about is much vast and a bit tough to understand. But though I’ll try to put down some of my views and opinions about this Love thing. So let’s go ahead.

( Note – Some people might think that I’ve shown only good side of the Love and not the bad or evil side. According to me, there are different aspects of Love. Love is not bad, but few people are. )

So what’s Love ?

I am sure there are uncountable definitions you’re gonna find for this on Internet.

But as per my opinion, Love is something intense. It is something where there is involvement of total Fearlessness, where there are no selfish motives. Living life at its fullest is Love. When a person whom you say you love to, comes in the definition of your own being, then that’s love.

Love is not a temporary feeling or emotion, because feelings and emotions change sometimes or daily, but true unconditional love is everlasting.

Love and relationship are two different things.
But if I see myself in the eyes of the person ahead and if she sees herself in mine, then that’s love.
Cause there remains no separation in between me and her. We both are the same.

But when there are two people who don’t understand this truth that they’re no different, then there is no love. There can be a relationship or attachment, but not love. Wherever there is separation, there is no love. Wherever there are two instead of single being, there is no love.

Love is something which happens where there is no way to get apart, detach or divide the two people. Because they are one.

People often need someone to be with and they call it Love. But that ain’t Love. That’s just a need. When you need something from someone, you are not thinking about them, you’re thinking about yourself because that’s gonna satisfy you.
What actually love is, you need nothing from someone. And that happens When you are actually fulfilled in yourself. Love is a Sense of absolute Fulfillment.

If you can see a person when he’s not around and smile with his cute memories, if you can live with the person without expecting anything from him, then that’s love.
When you can sit with a person for hours and hours without saying a word and it makes you happy, then that’s love.

That doesn’t mean all physical, psychological or emotional things aren’t required. They are important too, but only when there is a necessity.

But what I think the most suitable definition for love is –

Knowing that you’re already connected to the person, there’s no way to detach you from them and you are just happy being with them, that’s love.

Falling in Love –

So let’s consider our daily lives. There are billions who are actually in love with someone. And each one has his/her different story. But what remains common in those stories is Love. Many get to live with their loved ones while many don’t. Many get attention from their loved ones while many don’t even dare to ask. Many sacrifice their everything for their loved ones while many sacrifice their love for something. And within all these many, what makes them One is this Love, cause they are the ones who define it.

There are about 7.7 billion people in the world. And I’m damn sure at least half of them are the part of this love. Some use to talk good about it, some use to talk shit about it. But each one defines it by their own experiences and views. And we can’t decide who’s right or who’s wrong. Cause what seems right to us may be wrong in the perspective of other people. So I don’t think if choosing a side is an option to find out the true meaning of love.

They say, when you fall in love with someone, you start liking everything about that person with whom you’re in love with. Not only about the person, but about everything. You start liking the way he/she talks, the way he/she smiles, the way he/she walks and everything. Even if the person ahead is rude or sometimes a bit violent, though you accept him. You accept the person for what he/she is. And your perspective towards everything changes. You see the world with better eyes. And I don’t think there can be a love better than this.

When you see the person ahead and ask yourself if you know how he/she actually is, what flaws he/she posses, what kind of a temper he/she has and how he/she use to treat the people around, then you get to know the person better, You understand his/her behavior and most importantly you get to know if he/she’s okay to be with.

There are few people that you start liking suddenly, I mean they say it takes hardly few seconds to fall in love with someone. Maybe that’s true or maybe not. But the thing that matters is how much efforts you give after falling in love with someone to make your love successful. What I mean is, many people say that they’re in love with someone, it’s quite easy to say, but proving it is quite harder. You need to prove it by your actions how much you love the person ahead.

It’s a digital world. Digital medias are working hard to make the two people meet through their sites and applications. Everything has got digital. People even love through digital medias. They use to talk for hours on calls and over chats. I’m not saying if all this is wrong. But what needs for a relationship to work out is being physically there with the person so that he/she can feel what you’ve actually got to say.

Love stories happen the way they are meant to be.

You see someone, you find them attractive and cute, you start falling for them. Then there happens some hormonal changes in your brain. You start thinking about that person for days and nights. You try to come closer to them. You think of all the possible ways you can get in touch with them. Then suddenly the help arrives by the grace of God and we call them Friends. We ask them for the remedy of this disease called Love. And they come up with all the ideas and thoughts they have in their mind. They satiate us with the knowledge of Love and make us acknowledge it as well. And then you’re all set to scramble the next step of your love story. You somehow mange to get in touch with that person. You start talking with them. And no one remembers how you two get too close to each other. You like being in the company of the other one. You accept their likes, dislikes, their flaws and you just find them suitable for you. You accept them from your heart and soul. And you find your soulmate in that person.

Well many get successful in this battle while many lose. But what matters at the end is, you did give your best to love the person. And losing is not an end, you might have lost cause something better is waiting for you ahead. Maybe because God has a better plan for you ahead. So all we have to do is keep going. Cause Love isn’t life, it’s just a part of life. It’s just a page from the Book called Life.

So that’s all from my side guys

Love and peace….