World Beyond The Fear

Hello everyone,

So it’s a new blog and today’s topic is World beyond the Fear.
I’ve been thinking to write about this for so long cause I know how important this topic is. And I think it’s necessary to have one of my articles on this topic so that I can put up my views and opinions about it on this platform. So let’s start.

Fear –

A four lettered word which has been a big obstacle in mostly everyone’s lives. People usually come up with their extra big dreams. They wanna make those dreams come into reality. Everyone does want the same. But then the fear arrives. And then they start scaring of the things they’re going to meet up in the future, just by assuming them. They don’t even think that there assumptions might be wrong. And even if they are to be met, then why not to fight with the problems. Instead they start running from them. They’re scared so much of the future that they don’t even try to try. And they think they wouldn’t suffer cause the problem wouldn’t arise. But as per the saying, Fear is something that you cannot run from. The speed and intensity with which you try to run from it, the faster it comes to you. And then what? It messes up everything. Just like a bang, it destroys someone’s life.

But what I think is, running from it is not an option, in fact it never was. If you wanna achieve something and you already are trying to run away from it thinking about the consequences, then you’re never gonna make it. You need to start from somewhere to reach somewhere right. But we do not understand this simple truth and we just stay where we are thinking it’ll get better the next time and the fear goes on increasing. And the thing never happens, it just fades like they never had it in their minds.

If you wanna succeed in something you’re really concerned of, then scaring is not a choice. You’re scared of the consequences which may happen or which may not, then definitely you’re gonna fall one way or another. You wanna reach at the top of everything and for that sake, you need to stop at that point and fight with your fears to keep going. If you win, the glory is all yours to take. And even if you lose, you’ll have the life changing lesson which will make you stronger enough to give it another try. There is no other alternative on the path of success. You’ve to beat up your fear and just keep on walking until you reach your destination.

How to overcome Fear?

Since we have been talking the negativity occurring due to the fears that we have, we need to think of the ways to overcome those fears so that we can live our lives in a better manner. I have some clues for it. Let’s discuss.

When we’re scared of something, what we do is keep thinking about it for most of the time. And it makes mind full of negative thoughts and blinds us so badly that we don’t see the ways to come out of it. At such times, what needs to be done is we need to take out some time to free our mind and to refresh it. According to me, travelling or trekking is a best option to do it. Being in the heart of nature is the most beautiful thing one can ever imagine. So when we free out some of our time from these negative thoughts, our mind starts propagating with the positive waves all around us. And we find the feeling of security. We feel safe for some time. And we find ourselves free from our fears. But this can be a temporary solution. And it doesn’t eliminate the fear fully. It works as a short period alternative.

Since we’re all scared of something, what we have to do is think of the worst possibility that could happen for the things that we’re scared of. Like if someone is scared of exams cause he’s very dull at studying, what could be the worst possible situation for him? He’ll fail right. But this is the negative side of a coin. May be he’s not meant for this Field. May be he has a different world waiting for him out there where he may succeed with even more passionately. May be he just need a spark or push to understand this very possibility. But negative mind full of fear never thinks of it. Such a mind keeps on doing these these things which are unnecessary for him again and again. And gets frustrated. And only way that I see to come out of this, is thinking of the best positive outcome that we can have if not the one we’re already doing.

I’ve seen many people saying that they couldn’t do this or that due to their parents or some other people. That they’re scared to go against their parents or the society due to the innumerable reasons that they have. But these are no reasons on the way to success, these are just bullshit excuses that they give to themselves to avoid falling from their own eyes. A man is the only creator of his own success path. All other problems, excuses, reasons is just a bullshit.

And everyone who wants to walk on the path of success, they need to understand that this path is full of obstacles, hurdles, uneventful problems and full of scary hills from which you may fall 1000 times. But what we’ve to do is keep fighting, keep going no matter the circumstances. We need not to stop until we reach the destiny of ours.

Avoiding fears only make them scarier. Running away is an alternative for those who wanna gain the credit of others. But a person who runs away from his fears, can never write his own success story. You gotta fight and struggle hard to minimize the fears. You need to face every scary situation coming and entangling you. You need to stand every time you fall down. That’s the only way the fears will get Faded and you’ll be able to see the peaceful and amazing world beyond it.

So that’s all for today guys.

Hope you’ll like it.

Love and Peace. ✨